Psychotherapist, Author, and Relationship Consultant

"I help people who deeply desire to love and be loved get unstuck and transform their relationships into beautiful places they call HOME."

Jeffrey strives to support men and women on their path to uncover a place of deep renewal, empowerment and a sense of abiding joy. We are all capable of happiness once we liberate ourselves from the distorted expectations and projections that keep us stuck.
"Jeffrey’s been a marriage saver. His easy demeanor and honest and frank approach truly led us to a better place and better understanding of ourselves and ourselves as a couple. A few simple tweaks and we were back on track and growing together...rather than apart."


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Renew Your Wows!

Seven Powerful Tools to Ignite the Spark and Transform Your Relationship

Relationships are something that most of us tend to take for granted as a given. “Of course I deserve this person in my life to meet my needs and fulfill my desires!” If this were the case, Jeffrey Sumber suggests in Renew Your Wows!, we would all be blissfully satisfied, moving through life without a care in the world. Yet, for many of us this is just not so.

After researching the power of relationships for two decades, Sumber has uncovered one of the greatest secrets surrounding our insatiable need to sabotage the stability and mutual benefits of our long-term partnerships.

This book explores the ways in which we compromise our overall happiness by projecting the responsibility to create a sense of contentment onto others rather than building it at first individually, and then, as a committed, intentional team.

This is a book that turns the traditional relationship “how-to’” on it’s head and offers instead, an exploration of self-discovery and personal empowerment that actually does more for both romantic love as well as for all our interpersonal relationships than anything in recent memory.

Renew Your Wows

Marci-ShimoffHere’s a relationship book that’s not a prescription but an invitation. Renew Your Wows gets it right. Not only will you find the joy in your relationship you’ll like yourself more in the process.

~ Marci Shimoff, #1 NY Times Bestselling Author, Happy for No Reason, Love For No Reason, Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

Renew Your Wows